A half hour ago my father texted me. Asking if I was at work or at home. I told him I was at home and he replied with that he was going to call me in a few minutes. He called me to tell me that they took their cat Rosie (I wrote about her before here) to the vet last night, because she couldn’t stand on her back legs anymore.
She had very bad thrombosis in her body, because of that she couldn’t move her back legs anymore and she was in a lot of pain. It was time to let her go, she didn’t deserve so much pain.
Rosie is the sweetest cat I have ever known. As a child I could do anything to her. Put her clothes on and things like that. Tho, she never really liked it and always ran off. Rosie never bit or scratches. My parents got her from a shelter, one day we got home and they told us to have a look of what was in the bathroom. And there she was, a one year old cat. Shy and confused about what was going on and where she was. We promised out parents to leave her alone and went to bed. I was six years old.
Rosie was an outside cat. Always outside, roaming the world. Sometimes you could find her in the kitchen or in the living room. But that changed when my parents got a dog. Our first dog. That was a big change, because my parents didn’t properly bother to introduce the new dog to Rosie. She was scared, and the dog was too enthusiastic. So her new place was the bathroom where we held her that night to get used to her new home. She was outside during the day, and came in at night. Where she slept in the garage the first years together with the other Boogie (who passed away years ago), and then in the bathroom after that because we moved to a new place, and my mother didn’t wanted the cats in the garage anymore.
Her last few years I saw her becoming older and older. She could still walk the stairs, but she was becoming skinnier — even though she ate normal. Even though she was a senior, she didn’t go out for a good fight. The last time that happened when she was defending her territory she got a big wound on her tail that required stitches.
Rosie was the kind of cat who would never hurt a fly. She was great with kids, she was great with us. I would have love to take her in because it sometimes felt like Rosie was a burden to my parents’. I know it’s not true, and they loved her. And like her name explains, she was a beautiful Rose.
I remember when I was getting older and reaching puberty. I always felt like I was misunderstood. When I felt lonely, or had a fight with my parents. I would just lock myself up in the bathroom with Rosie. Just sitting next to her against the heater. She wouldn’t judge me, she would understand me. She wouldn’t talk back to me, and that was fine by me. Her purring and meowing was enough.
I don’t know what else to say beside that she will be missed greatly.


You poor thing…your heart has to be beyond broken. I am so deeply sorry. You grew up with her, she will always be special and will always be protecting you. Sending you many ((((hugs)))) and my deepest sympathy. She was a gorgeous girl
Thank you Caren.
We didn’t really saw this coming, but she was getting pretty old. She’s a special cat. I’ll miss her a lot.
Awww I am so sorry to read this. She was a beautiful and sweet little ladycat. She is probably watching over you and your parents now, free of pain.
We are sending lots of purrs and the humans are sending hugs.
Thank you for your sweet words, Texas.
Goodbye darling Rosie. How deeply sad. Time will help heal the pain of loss.
It will. It happens too fast.
we are so sorry, it must be so hard when you have grown up with her, she looks beautiful
xxooxxx Thinking of you xx
Mollie and Alfie
Awe, Thanks Mollie & alfie!
So very sad to hear of your family’s loss….Rosie certainly lived a long life – I’m glad your parents helped her go to the Bridge when they recognized it was her time…..no doubt she’ll be keeping an eye on all of you always. She was a very beautiful cat……….Sammy and I both send big hugs because we know how very hard it is to let go…..
Love, Pam and Sam
Thank you for your sweet words, Sam & Pam!
Oh der, we sends yous comforting purrs. We remember when our first heart cat went over the bridge. We know he is waiting there for us and purring, as Rosie is for you! She was a gorgeous girol.
Kisses
Nellie, Kozmo, the hairy slobbery sisters Bob and Cinnamon and Mommy
At least she is without pain now.
Awwww…D, I’m sorry. She was beautiful (reminds me of my Neeners a bit.) She had a good life and was loved!
At least she isn’t in pain anymore!
Poor sweet girl… sounds kind of like she had the same thing Neeners had.
I don’t know.
She just couldn’t stand up anymore. I always thought she would have been older.
I feel sadder than I thought I would feel.
Honey, 17 is a good long time for a kitty!
Hmm, that’s life! Gelukkig heeft de kat een mooi leven gehad, en heb je altijd nog de herinneringen en foto’s!
Gelukkig wel.
Rest in peace Rosie, I lost two elderly cats myself this autumn.
Sorry to hear that. It just really sucks.
Sterkte Dianda. Wij hebben hier ongeveer hetzelfde meegemaakt met Jones, onze poes van bijna 19 jaar oud. Je zag die de laatste jaren ook zo mager worden en vorig jaar raakte ze amper nog een trap op. Nadat we haar hadden laten inslapen was heel de familie zeer triest.
Gelukkig heb je veel leuke herinneringen aan Rosie en die kan je koesteren.
Dankjewel Herman.
Het blijft altijd vreselijk. Ook al verhuis je en zie je de poes niet meer zo vaak. Je bent er mee op gegroeid, en heeft altijd een plekje in je hart.
what a lovely cat. she knew she was loved, you can see that.
Yea, she was a free and happy spirit.
I shouldn’t have read this post. Now my eyes are wet.
She was given a second chance at life, and it seems she made good use of it.
Awe, Tom.
So sorry to hear about Rosie. Love and hugs to you and your family xxx
Thank you Misaki
Ah, no. So sorry to hear this, dear Dianda! I hope you will be okay. It’s good that you had her in your life, though. I bet you wouldn’t be here otherwise, and that would be a great loss for all of us.
I’ll survive. It just feels so weird. I cant even imagine how it would be if it was hiro or suki.
But I just wish it would have been much more painless for her. You know?
Of course. It does sound as if your parents kept her pain to a minimum. It’s so hard, with cats, when they don’t let you know they are hurting.
Exactly. But at least she has no pain anymore. We’re going to miss her!
Oh, dianda, wat erg! Sterkte met het verlies van Rosie, wat een lieverd. Gelukkig heeft ze nu geen pijn meer. Nou, ik hou het niet droog, er komen zoveel herinneringen naar boven. Sterkte meid :’(
Ik loop ook al de hele dag te snotteren. Dankjewel angelswhisper, ik overleef het wel. Maar het kwam zo onverwacht, ze leek gezond!
I feel so sorry for you. It must be hard – I guess Rosie was very old? She must’ve had a wonderful life with people who loved her. May she rest in peace!
She was 17 years old! So she was pretty old.
Rest in peace sweet kitty.
Sorry to hear this.
I am very sorry to hear about Rosie Dianda. She grew up with you and will always be part of who you are xx
She’ll be missed!
I am so very sorry. Nothing every quite prepares us for these times, no matter the age or life they have led. My she be comfortable, pain free and having a wonderful time now. It is always hard to think of the right words but I do truly understand what you are going through and my heart aches for you and I wish you strength at through this difficult time.
Thank you so much for your kind words.
So sorry for you loss. Lots of purrs to you!
Thank you JCJ,
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So sad. It’s so distressing to lose them
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